You decide how you live, to be friends with, and whom to love.
There are always people in life who will tell you that you don’t especially take everything to heart, relax and go with the flow, taking everything as it is.
Yes, this is certainly good advice, because you will not be chasing every cloud that floats across the sky. But there are some things that in no case can not "give up": "But it will be, as it will be!" After all, our happiness and the ability to live fully depends on them.
The “counselors,” who tell you that it is necessary to live easily and not expect much from life, actually do a disservice. No one has the right to tell how you live or condemn in accordance with their standards.
The only thing you should listen to is your own heart. Only it can unmistakably suggest what will bring you happiness, and that - vice versa.
If you live, constantly listening and worrying about what other people think or say about you, then you are only expected to stress and worry.
If your passionate nature pushes away someone, and they want to leave - release. You do not need a number of people who do not match your energy. The most important thing is to be always honest with yourself: with whom you want to go through life, what do you expect from people you let into your life.
Your life should be filled with what you love and what brings happiness. Do not be afraid to say it out loud.
Naturally, you, like all people, do not shine with happiness alongside fake and mediocre people.
But if you act as if you don't care, guess what will happen? That's right, life "will give" you people who will be exactly the same - no. Here is how it works.
Of course, many things in life you can not control. It is primarily about the words and actions of other people. And you can neither change them, nor convince in something.
The only person you have control over is you. You, and only you, decide how you live, with whom to be friends and to love.
Therefore, never agree to drink bad coffee. Do not settle for bad friends who betray in difficult times. They remember you only when they need something. And never settle for a relationship with bad people. It poisons you and your life, instead of inspiring and helping to grow.

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